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We will continue to counsel you...
on your unspeakable concerns in 2019.
- National Competition on Worries! - Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
Let me introduce you to our today's guests.
The happy newlywed bride, Comedienne Lee Su Ji!
(Comedienne Lee Su Ji)
I'm so happy.
Comedian Kim Joon Hyun!
(Kim Joon Hyun, the peerless comedian)
The genius comedian,
Park Young Jin!
(Park Young Jin, the genius comedian)
- I didn't know he was genius. - Hello.
Hui and Hongseok of PENTAGON!
- Hello. - Hello.
(They're handsome.)
Actually, yesterday,
Yeong Ja won the Grand Award at KBS Entertainment Awards.
(Yeong Ja won the Grand Award at 2018 KBS Entertainment Awards.)
Grand Award, Grand Award.
- Congratulations. - Grand Award!
She's the first female Grand Award winner...
in KBS Entertainment Awards history.
Well, I feel so...
Thank you. Oh, boy.
I should thank everyone.
Everyone, it's all thanks to you.
Happy New Year.
(She uses her large sweater like a skirt.)
What are you doing?
What's that?
(This is the Grand Award winner's sense of humor.)
(Laughing)
However, I want to trade...
the Grand Award for Su Ji's happiness if I could.
- I see. - Really?
Su Ji got married to a man who's three years younger than her...
and came back from her honeymoon not long ago.
We're seeing a photo like this from the beginning.
Aren't we so sweet?
We look so cute.
We took some photos to save the memory.
What are the good things about being married?
I'm so happy. I'm very busy.
I'm busy day and night.
I'm so busy.
It helps to lose weight.
Why are you so busy?
My goodness.
2019 is the Year of the Golden Pig.
Imagine how cute a baby born in the Year of the Pig will be.
My goodness.
- We're trying to have a baby. - I see.
Is there anything uncomfortable about being married?
Actually, I have a worry.
What is it?
My husband and I...
don't fart when we're together.
It's too early to do that.
Right? I asked people around me,
"What should I do?"
And they told me what to do.
If you hold both sides of your hips like this...
- and pull it, you can fart quietly. - Like this?
- Is it okay to fart quietly? - I can't even do that.
I still make a noise like this.
So it's not a solution for me.
- Like this? - Yes. I'm embarrassed.
You'd be embarrassed if you make noise...
- Exactly. - like this.
In fact, Joon Hyun has two daughters.
I heard that both of your daughters eat a lot just like you.
They eat well. They eat a lot.
I said I hoped they would start eating solid food...
so I could eat beef tripe soup with them soon.
- And... - Do they eat beef tripe soup?
- Yes. She likes it. - That's unbelievable.
- She likes dishes like pork gukbap. - She likes it.
(Cute)
- They're adorable. - They're pretty.
- We let them sleep together. - Aren't they dolls?
- How adorable. - They're so adorable.
She likes beef tripe soup.
She bites it with her front teeth.
- In fact, Young Jin... - They are pretty.
- is close friends with Joon Hyun... - That's right.
and Park Sung Kwang. Do you see Sung Kwang often?
Do you think he's changed?
He's become the icon of consideration.
We met to have some beer with fried chicken.
But I was a little late.
Sung Kwang was waiting for me without eating the chicken.
I asked why he didn't eat anything.
- He said he was waiting for me. - My goodness.
Didn't he wait for you before?
I only saw the bones if I was late.
However, I bet he has no choice.
When I eat at a restaurant with my family...
and people in the restaurant look at us,
I say, "What?" and laugh when they didn't say anything.
(What?)
Sometimes I try to make myself look like...
the head of a happy family.
Hui of PENTAGON is famous...
as a handsome and genius songwriter.
- He's really talented. - He made Wanna One's "Energetic".
Hui, you composed the song by yourself, right?
Yes, I did.
(Impressed)
I heard that Hui has already...
prepared his acceptance speech.
- Is that true? - It's not that I prepared it.
I just...
imagine myself giving a speech.
"Should I do it in a cheery way?"
"No. It should be serious, right?"
- Can you show us the two versions? - Nice.
- Show us. - Let us hear it in advance.
It's understandable.
- I'll start with the cheery one. - You won an award as PENTAGON.
(He starts by exclaiming.)
Thank you so much. I'll continue doing my best.
(Acting cute)
It was the cheery version.
- Now, the serious version. - The serious version.
- The serious version? - Yes.
I bet he'll say the same thing.
(Imitating Hui)
(He's so funny.)
Hongseok...
will show us...
an unusual talent for Hello.
- Wow. - What is it?
I will stand on my hands from the sitting position.
Like this?
- Right. He'll show us... - Just like gymnasts?
It's hard for me to just stand up while sitting down.
I'll do it in the front.
- It's hard to stand up. - I know.
- My legs are numb or hurting. - Right.
- Watch him. - Can he really do that?
My goodness.
(Standing on his hands easily)
- Gosh. - That's amazing.
(He succeeded easily.)
(What did I just see?)
Hongseok, show us one more time.
- Face the other side this time. - I can't believe it.
Show your abs to the audience sitting on this side too.
(The audience cheers excitedly!)
(Revealing his abs)
(That's awesome.)
- He has such strong arms. - His belly?
- He has strong core muscles too. - His arms?
His entire body is strong.
Today, three worries have arrived.
Let's find out the worries. Show us the keywords please.
- "The Truth of My Husband". - "Will She Change This Year?"
- "Loser's Life". - "Loser's Life"?
Let me introduce "The Truth of My Husband".
Hello, I'm a woman in my 30s...
with a 4-year-old and a 9-month-old.
My husband is like this.
"Hello. What? There is a problem?"
"Of course, I can come. I'll be right there."
"Are you crazy? It's 1am."
"Where are you going? Just stay home."
"You shouldn't live like that."
"You're so cold-hearted."
"We should help each other."
"Let go. I'm going out."
That's my husband.
He goes out to help others even in the middle of the night.
"Honey, where are you?"
"I'm watching a kindergarten talent show.
"What? Our daughter is home."
"Where are you?"
"It's my friend's kid's talent show."
"I have to go."
(Why?)
"Honey, where are you now?"
"I'm at my friend's aunt's son's..."
- "wedding reception." - Friend's aunt's son?
He attends every event there is.
But do you know how he treats me?
"Our baby is crying. Can you take a look?"
"I'm tired. Babies cry all the time."
"Honey, can you massage my shoulders?"
"Your shoulders? Gosh, I don't think so."
"I don't dare to."
He doesn't care about his family at all.
What should I do with him?
That's it.
Oh, my.
Joon Hyun, do you try to help others a lot?
I used to when I was younger.
- But you're married now. - I thought I should change.
It'd be too much.
You're sweating so much.
On thermographic camera, only I would look red.
Right.
Apparently, he doesn't sweat...
- between January 15 February 10. - Really?
- Why not? - It's just off-season.
But you don't get to see it...
because I take some time off from work too.
I go into hibernation.
- You can go back now. - Okay.
- Gosh, it's much cooler now. - I'm going back.
- He's like a heater. - I'm burning up.
Let's meet the frustrated wife. She's from Mungyeong.
(Her husband is only nice to others.)
(Choi Ji Hye)
What is your husband so busy with?
He does so many things.
- He runs a health supplement store. - A health supplement store.
He is also in many clubs. He is actually leading...
- many of them. - For example?
- What kind of clubs? - He is that type.
First, he runs a Youth Mall.
He is a volunteer firefighter and social media reporter.
He is a member of a young merchant club and a soccer club.
He is also the vice-president of his alumni association.
He has so many roles.
From local campaigns to sports events,
- he offers help whenever he can. - Oh, my.
He attends every event.
What does he do at home then?
At home, he sleeps.
- His role is sleeping. - His role is sleeping.
It sounds like he likes to help others.
He's very nosy.
When someone asks for help, he can't say no.
He can't say no.
One day, a friend of his was moving.
- Of course, he hired some movers. - Right.
Still, my husband insisted on helping them with moving the fridge.
When someone has a problem,
he listens to them all night. From dating to life in general,
he offers advice to everyone.
He even attends third cousins' weddings.
One day, his friend's aunt's son...
had a wedding, and there was an after-party.
- They wanted my husband to come. - After-party?
In the end, he came home at 4am.
He's an ultimate insider.
- He is an ultimate insider. - They say, "If you go to Jeomchon,"
- "you can meet Jae Pil." - Jeomchon?
- Captain Yang. - How was he...
when you were dating?
Back then, I was blinded by love.
I thought he was amazing.
- You liked it about him? - Yes. He did charity work...
and often treated others.
- I thought he was so manly. - Right.
I wanted to marry him because he was so kind-hearted.
But after we had our second child,
he said he felt a lot of burden.
He said he should work harder.
That's when he started taking on more things.
After you get married, you start hating the things...
you used to like about your partner.
You shouldn't have become family with him.
- It's too late now. - What the point now?
He is great when he is not your family.
That's right. It'd be very nice...
to have a friend like him.
- That's right. - Of course.
(But I want him to be a good husband.)
After you had your second child,
he felt a lot of burden and started doing more things.
But that must mean he makes money from those things.
He makes money from two things,
the health supplement store and the Youth Mall.
- They're his source of income. - But apart from that,
it's all volunteer work.
- We're only making ends meet. - He has to spend his own money.
When customers come, rather than trying to make money,
he offers things for free.
"I made it. Try it."
He gives things away for free.
Meanwhile, I struggle with the kids.
He goes to others' stores and says, "You should start selling this."
- "It'll be such a hit." - At others' stores?
Yes. When I complain to him that we need more customers,
he tells me, "You're so cold-hearted."
(What?)
(Frustrated)
"You don't care about others."
"You will have no one around you later in your life."
What do people say about your husband?
They think he's amazing.
- I knew it. - That's frustrating.
- It'd drive you crazy. - They think I'm so lucky.
They think he is a hard worker and good father.
But as soon as he comes home,
he lies down and does nothing.
Our daughter is 4 years old, and our son is 9 months old.
- They must need a lot of care. - Yes.
When I ask my husband for help, he says,
"You're their mom. You have to be strong."
"You're a parent."
"There is nothing a human being cannot overcome."
"Be strong."
(How can he say that to his wife?)
Let's meet her kind husband.
Where are you?
- Hello. - He does look kind.
I'm her husband, Yang Jae Pil.
He really looks kind.
You must be so busy. Thank you for coming here.
He must have told the writer, "Of course, I can come."
- He couldn't say no. - He couldn't say no.
Are you here for our writer?
No, that's not it. I want...
my wife to understand me.
(I want my wife to understand me.)
(Even more than now?)
She's always been understanding. You want more?
Before I started my own family, I wasn't like this.
Without all my social activities,
our family would fall apart.
But I ended up too many things...
without realizing it.
Are you saying you're doing it for your business?
I wouldn't say everything is for my business.
- A person... - Then what is it?
You're changing your position all the time.
How is it related to your business?
I'm leading a young merchant organization.
I'm hoping it would help my business...
in the future.
Do you mean you're doing those activities...
- for the future of your business? - Yes, that's right.
But you even went to your friend's daughter's talent show.
- Not many people do that. - Not many people do that.
I think my friends' children are...
my family.
That's why he feels so much burden.
If you think that way,
everyone in this whole world would be family.
(He is so nosy.)
He asked me to come to the talent show too.
But I had a herniated disc at that time.
It got serious. I couldn't sit down.
He went there instead of looking after you?
Yes.
Your wife had a back problem?
She had had a back problem for a while.
But she felt especially a lot of pain that day.
Why don't you just say you're sorry?
She must have been hurt.
(You don't care about my pain?)
What other events did he attend that you thought he didn't have to?
- Apart from the talent show. - There was this colleague...
he worked with for 10 years. When he went back to Vietnam,
he told my husband, "Visit me when I get married."
I didn't take it seriously, but my husband...
really attended his wedding in Vietnam.
Our second child was only 200 days old, and he closed his store.
He spent 7 night and 8 days there.
(7 night and 8 days)
- That's long. - Eight days?
- For a wedding? - For a wedding?
(Unbelievable)
(Embarrassed)
Apparently, Vietnamese weddings last for 3 to 4 days.
- He stayed for the party. - He attended the after-party too?
- Who is that? - It's the after-party.
(He is singing.)
Is that him?
(He has forgotten about his wife.)
- His wife must be crying. - I was.
(My friend comforted me)
He even likes songs about friends.
(Dancing)
He's having fun.
Is that his friend next to him?
(He is having fun.)
(We're friends for a thousand years)
My goodness.
- For a thousand years? - Even the song...
I wasn't planning on staying there too long,
but my friend said, "Three days is too short."
"Stay longer." He asked politely.
My goodness.
In addition to the wedding,
I did market research.
(I did market research.)
I heard a lot about coach Park Hang Seo too.
(He still doesn't think it was wrong.)
My parents always tell me,
"If you treat others nicely, you will be rewarded."
Don't you think that's true?
You have a point,
but at this rate, we might go bankrupt.
He spends too much money on others' events.
That's right.
He attend his distant relatives' weddings.
- Distant relatives? - When his estranged friends...
invite him to their babies' first birthday,
he sends them some money if he can't attend the party.
He got insurance and joined a mutual aid society...
He spent about 20,000 dollars on things like this.
(He spent 20,000 dollars until now.)
He wasted that much money.
(My goodness.)
(He lost the money forever.)
I said, "Honey, I'm worried we might go bankrupt."
Then he said I was too negative...
and that the world is still beautiful,
so we'll learn important things from it.
And that made my blood boil.
(My husband makes my blood boil.)
It's true that I have a hard time refusing favors.
It's hard for me to say no.
And...
You said it's hard for you to say no.
Have you ever lent money to someone and not get it back?
Yes, I have.
- Does your wife know... - And your wife doesn't know?
(Did he lend money to others behind her back?)
If I had told her, she would've...
- So... - You didn't even tell her?
- But... - Gosh.
(Speechless)
But I don't have much money.
The total amount I lent to others is only 2,000 or 3,000 dollars.
I have no intention of getting it back as it's not much.
- That's ridiculous. - How much...
(This is why I'm frustrated.)
Sir, how much money...
do you spend a month on other people's events?
I heard celebrities spend several thousands of dollars.
- That's not true. - No.
- Why would you compare yourself... - That's not true.
(Why does he compare himself to celebrities?)
- You're mistaken. - That's not true.
Why would he compare himself to us?
I paid 100 dollars as congratulatory money for Su Ji.
And I'm grateful for it.
During the peak season,
I spend between 500 and 800 dollars in a month.
I spend more than 1,000 dollars for my relatives.
Why are you surprised?
I had no idea.
- He didn't tell here that either. - I didn't know.
(Gosh.)
Does he help you with house chores?
In fact, I have a job.
(Do both of them have a job?)
I'm in charge of the Youth Mall.
I drop off my oldest child at kindergarten...
and go to the store carrying my second baby on my back.
I work at the store all day long carrying my baby.
You also do house chores and look after the kids?
Yes. I do everything by myself.
I look after the kids. I bathe and tuck them in.
When I ask him to throw out garbage and separate recycling,
he says he can't do it. He tells me to wait a while...
- and then he'll do it. - Why?
He said if he showed me all his charms then,
- I would get tired of him. - Sorry?
- His charms? - Yes. He said he'll improve slowly.
Doesn't it make him less charming?
By the way...
My husband likes watching TV.
He cries while watching an idol singer audition show.
"They must've gone through a hard time to make it this far."
I had trouble eating, relieving myself, and sleeping,
so I cried, but he didn't even care about me.
I get mastitis since I breastfeed my baby.
- I was sick and burning with fever. - Oh, dear.
- I called him at midnight. - You endured it so long.
He said, "Do you know how hard it is to be a breadwinner?"
"I'm working outside without eating any food."
I'm not a husband...
who doesn't do any house chores.
To be honest, while watching Hello,
I was surprised to see...
such odd people.
- I... - You're just like them.
- No. - Exactly.
- I'm a good person. - It's because...
you're nice but too stubborn.
- That's right. - He's too nice.
You're too stubborn.
You're nice to others, but too stubborn.
- I can't just criticize him. - Exactly.
- I'd say he's bad if he was. - That's right.
You're still not admitting anything.
He didn't admit he was wrong to go to Vietnam.
(She must be very frustrated.)
Someone in the audience is looking at her with sad eyes.
That's her mother.
(Her mother is here.)
- Hello. - She's very beautiful.
Have you ever felt that he was good to your daughter?
I don't think I felt that way...
many times.
(We understand what you mean.)
She has to look after her children...
and work at the store dealing with customers.
- She was so exhausted. - Of course.
She said she wished she could get a good night's sleep.
Then my son-in-law said,
"You will get to sleep forever when you die."
"Why are you complaining about that?"
- He said such a mean thing. - I know.
That's what he said,
and that made me so upset.
(I feel bad for my daughter.)
Do you think your son-in-law is too nosy?
- He went to a karaoke... - Right.
with his acquaintance's aunt and her friends.
He hung out with hem until late night.
His friend's aunts went to a karaoke.
- He didn't have to go there. - Do you think...
he enjoys hanging out with people like that?
- He likes it. - Or...
- He likes having fun. - He likes it.
- Yes. - Exactly.
He sings in every video we watched.
- Then... - Frankly,
I think my mother-in-law is mistaken.
- She's mistaken? - It was a wedding reception.
There were my friend's aunts...
and their friends at the reception.
It's just the same as joining strangers at a karaoke.
At a wedding...
Your friend's aunts must've thought, "Who is he?"
- That's right. - He didn't have to go there.
While hanging with others like that, you become excited, right?
- Yes. As I get drunk... - Right?
- I can tell he likes having fun. - From the video we watched.
I thought he was a singer.
(You must know how to have fun to socialize with others.)
Your wife remembers what you did. What did she do to make you upset?
I can't tell you that because I want to save her face.
In the early years of our marriage,
I saw her getting angry at me,
and so I decided not to get angry at her again.
I'll tell you...
why it's hard for us to believe what you're saying.
If you had really been shocked, you would've washed dishes...
or cleaned the house while she was breastfeeding the baby.
But she still does all the house chores while you watch TV.
- I'm stressed out as well. - Listen.
(He's so selfish.)
- Stop saying things like that. - Okay.
- Well... - Let's hear an objective opinion.
Let's talk to his friend. Hello.
I've been his friend since middle school,
and my husband went to the same school as him.
What was he like when he was younger?
He was a yes man.
- He never refused a favor... - He was the same...
- nor get angry. - back then.
He was always nice to others.
He has a good personality.
However, he's not practical.
- That's right. - Yes.
As a married woman just like his wife, what do you think of him?
I wouldn't live with a man like him.
Unexpectedly, he's quite patriarchal at home.
He believes that a man makes money,
and his wife must take good care of him.
- My goodness. - From my perspective,
Ji Hye is putting up with him.
I told him to say nice things to her and thank her,
- He doesn't compliment her. - but he said...
that other wives are living just like she is.
(How dare you!)
(He's so mean.)
When we were dating, he said...
that he's not the type who says warm words often.
And as for parenting, he once said...
that if we said nice things to our kids too often, they'd be spoiled...
- and want more and more. - He doesn't even do that anyway.
When I gave birth to my oldest child,
since it was my first time, I couldn't tell if it was labor pain.
But then I felt that the baby was going to come out.
I asked my husband to call the nurse, and he said,
- "I don't think it's time yet." - Gosh.
He didn't call the nurse.
It hurt so much, and I screamed.
Then the nurse came and said,
"Gosh. I see the baby's head."
"Why didn't you let us know?"
So I gave birth to my baby.
Right after that, my husband said,
"Only Korean women stay in the hospital for postnatal care."
"Women in foreign countries run around right after giving birth."
"So walk up the stairs to go back to your room."
While we were walking, the nurse came up to us.
"Ma'am, what are you doing?"
- "You bled a lot. You have anemia." - Oh, gosh.
"You shouldn't move around."
- "Sir, help your wife." - Of course.
So we took the elevator and went up.
Things like this made me so upset.
He never listens to what I say.
(My daughter...)
- I was very upset. - What she said is true, right?
You really did that, right?
I did it only to make her laugh.
I didn't mean to hurt her feelings.
- It's true. - I see.
(Gosh.)
(Well...)
- You see... - If you make a joke,
but she doesn't laugh, then it's not funny.
I'd like to ask you a question, sir.
Why do you think your wife send us her story?
Good. Dong Yeob, you talk to him. I don't think I can...
(Yeong Ja burst with anger.)
- Talk to us. - If I keep talking to him,
I might have to return my award.
Now...
(Laughing)
Since I'm the head of my family,
I take care of many things.
But if I complain about my work to my wife,
she'll get stressed out.
So I try to...
carry the burden all by myself.
Also, she said I attend other people's events...
and go out to have fun so often.
But I stopped drinking with my friends.
I don't go out just to see my friends.
- You don't? - I don't.
I don't know exactly what you do...
or how much time and effort you need to spend.
But do you think people will ignore you...
if you don't attend each of their personal events?
- I don't think so. - Right.
I think you're afraid of that too much.
You can't seem to tell apart...
the important things in your life and your eagerness...
- to make yourself look good. - That's right.
But you keep saying that it's your burden as the head of the family.
Naturally, your wife is frustrated to watch you behaving like that.
Joon Hyun is famous for his good personality.
He's nosy. He likes eating food and drinking.
But since he had to take care of his family,
he started to drink with his fellow comedians less often.
For a while, I received a lot of texts from them at late night.
"You've changed. You weren't like this." Some swore at me.
I think you need to be more honest to yourself.
Working hard isn't the only duty of the head of a family.
You have to face the problem...
that your family has head on.
Take up courage and look into it.
I think you should start by resolving that problem.
I think you should stop making any more excuses for your behaviors.
(Stop making excuses.)
How would you feel if the situation doesn't change?
Since he works really hard outside home,
he has what it takes to become someone big.
Perhaps his family is a hindrance.
(Perhaps my children and I are a hindrance.)
- My goodness. - I can't help but think that.
I have to keep on nagging at him.
When the children reach the age of 20,
- I might graduate from marriage. - You might leave.
(What does the family mean to Ji Hye's husband?)
(She must have had this thought since life was too hard.)
- When they reach the age of 20? - The younger one is 9 months old.
You brainwashed her.
How could she think that...
she is a hindrance to you?
Say what you want to say to your husband one last time.
Honey, I get that you are working hard.
If you only care about the others,
you may not have me in your life.
(You may not have me in your life.)
Pay attention to me.
(Pay attention to me.)
"You may not have me in your life" made my heart sink.
- I know. - It's a serious warning.
Let's start with Su Ji.
You had to hear this worry despite being a newlywed.
I am very nervous right now.
- It has only been a month. - Gosh, Su Ji.
(Let's live happily, Honey.)
(I want to press the button.)
People around him...
and Ji Hye need to see the husband the same way...
for this worry to be resolved.
It's a serious worry. It really is.
To Ji Hye, it's a worry.
You visited Hello two years after your debut...
and became gaunt.
- Seriously. - I am like, "Is this for real?"
This is a real situation.
It's so shocking.
I also think it's a worry.
If you think it's a worry,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
I have one more question for Ji Hye.
If your husband comes back to his senses...
and spends time on the family,
what do you want to do with him?
I want to enjoy a hobby with him.
I also like to sing and dance.
- You have good cheer. - Yes.
One time, we took a tour bus...
to attend a wedding.
I asked my husband to watch the children for 20 minutes...
and danced to relieve my stress.
20 minutes?
Yes. It relieved the built-up stress from raising children.
- 20 minutes was all you needed. - Yes.
Since your children aren't here, think of the studio as a tour bus.
That's right.
(Excited)
(Relieve your stress.)
It's a good idea.
- Imagine yourself on a tour bus. - Let's have some fun.
- The bus stopped for a second. - Now,
- your husband should come. - My husband should come.
- You want to dance with him, right? - Yes.
- All right. - Come on out.
- Come on out. - Hurry up.
Shall we dance?
- Come on. - Hongseok,
you could show us...
a funny dance.
You could dance like this.
Understood?
- All right. - Let's stop the bus for a second.
Let's stop the bus.
- Ji Hye's husband is crying. - Ji Hye's husband is crying.
You should have been good to your wife.
I am sure he is filled with many thoughts.
- He is crying so suddenly. - I know.
- My goodness. - What do these tears mean?
I made Ji Hye suffer a lot.
I will try harder.
(He tears up because he feels bad.)
(He finally begins to see how much his wife has suffered.)
To be honest, my wife isn't the type...
to talk of divorce lightly.
The fact she brought it up...
in a place like this...
I didn't know things were this bad before I came here.
(He feels bad for her.)
Say something to your wife.
Look her in the eye.
(It's belated, but deliver your sincerity...)
(through heartwarming words.)
Thank you so much for marrying me when I lack in many ways.
I will try harder from now on so that you don't suffer.
(I will try harder from now on so that you don't suffer.)
[VIU Ver] E394 Hello Counselor "What About Me?" -♥ Ruo Xi ♥-
Let's make an effort. Please be understanding...
of me.
- You didn't have to say that. - Tell her you love her.
- I love you. - My goodness.
(I love you.)
(Please continue to express what's in your heart.)
(As you are a good person to other people,)
(be a good husband and father to your family.)
We won't force you...
in this atmosphere.
Do you want to dance or not?
You want to dance. Okay.
(I won't miss this opportunity.)
She really likes to dance.
My goodness.
She is determined to dance.
- They should do the blues dance. - Ji Hye's husband,
take off your jacket and do this right.
Show how much you love your wife.
Music, cue.
Let's go!
Cue.
(She immediately reacts to the rhythm.)
(She commands the stage with her pent-up good cheer.)
Raise the volume.
(This is fun.)
All right.
(Honey, let's dance.)
- What kind of dance is that? - All right.
(Her good cheer explodes.)
(Don't stop me today.)
(I don't want to see this.)
(Say goodbye to stress.)
Give her a big hand.
(How did she suppress herself?)
(I feel refreshed.)
(I hope you live happily.)
How many votes did the worry get? Show us the result.
Out of 200 votes...
Will it get 200 votes?
(Will it get 200 votes?)
Really?
170 votes! Wow!
("The Truth of My Husband")
He doesn't keep a promise he made with his wife,
but he keeps a promise he made with other people.
Promise to everyone...
that you will behave differently at home.
It won't be easy to do household chores,
- but I will give it a go. - How will you talk to your wife?
- That's right. - Use kind words.
I will tell her that I love her and give her a kiss every day.
Tell her that you are thankful.
- All right. - That's good.
- Thank you for coming. - Thank you.
(Through the event of today,)
(we hope they will become a happy family.)
"Loser's Life".
Hello.
(Screaming)
I am an 18-year-old girl with a sad life.
I have a brother who is a year older than me.
"Is he your brother? He is so handsome!"
"He resembles Park Bo Gum!"
(A golden boy who resembles Park Bo Gum?)
"I heard he also gets good grades. He is a golden boy."
(Imagining him makes my heart flutter.)
(Excited)
Unlike my brother, who is the center of attention,
I am practically invisible.
What I'm upset about is that...
even my mom shows favoritism towards my brother.
"Isn't your brother really handsome?"
"You have a big face and..." A big face?
I suddenly became annoyed.
Tae Gyun, it's just your head that is big.
- Really? - Yes. Your face is small.
That's even weirder.
- When you imagine it... - A big head and a small face?
"You have a big face and poor proportions. I feel bad."
She always compares our appearances.
When my brother is studying... "Your brother is studying."
"Lower the TV volume to one."
When I am studying, she says,
"Can you turn down the volume of the game?"
"Your brother is taking a break after studying hard!"
"Leave him be."
It's frustrating beyond words.
"Mom, you are too much. Why do you always compare us?"
"If it bothers you so much,"
"you should try beating your brother in something."
"Dad, Mom is too much."
"Listen to your mom."
(No one is on my side.)
No one in the family is on my side.
How sad!
I have been compared to my brother all my life.
I want it to stop.
How sad!
Joon Hyun, you seem to relate to the story.
Have you ever been treated differently?
- I am the second child. - I see.
The second child tends to be aware of the surroundings.
My second child is a little over 100 days old.
When I hug her older sister,
she begins to cry for no reason.
When I go to her, she stops crying.
- She wants a hug as well. - She wants to survive.
The second child tends to be aware of the surroundings.
Let's meet the girl who gets treated unjustly.
Come on out.
(Who always gets treated differently from her brother?)
(Jang Soo Bin)
Since when did you suffer unfair treatment?
For 18 years,
I have received unfair treatment.
Do you remember that far back?
See? It starts at a young age.
- I told you. - That's right.
It starts at a young age.
I go to the same high school as my brother.
You go to the same high school.
"Your brother is handsome. I heard he gets good grades, too."
Teachers come in and say, "I heard Park Bo Gum's sister is..."
"in this classroom."
Is your brother known as Park Bo Gum at school?
I think so.
What we heard so far got our expectations up.
Once he is revealed...
He may not resemble Park Bo Gum.
You shouldn't get our expectations up.
Do you think your brother is handsome?
He is neither ugly nor handsome.
You don't think he is that handsome.
People in the audience are stealing looks at the person...
who seems to be her brother.
He is handsome.
- That's right. - He is handsome.
He isn't Park Bo Gum, but just Park Bo...
"Park Bo".
The resemblance isn't so great that he gets the full name.
My brother gets good grades.
When I bring home my report card, my mom goes,
"Why can't you get better grades? Look at what your brother got."
"Try to beat him just once." I got so angry...
that I studied really hard...
and brought home the report card.
My best grade...
was my brother's worst grade.
(My goodness.)
I spend more hours studying...
than my brother.
- You spent more hours studying. - Yes.
He plays games the day before the exam.
I am sure your mom said those words to help you...
- study hard. - That's right.
Can't you think of it that way?
But she talks about my brother...
no matter the situation.
- I see. - Whether it's the grades or not.
I guess she loves your brother very much.
If he is at the academy or someplace else,
she says, "What should I make for my son?"
"I miss him."
- She says that in front of you. - Yes.
- That's sad. - One time,
we were having a meal...
when my mom suddenly talked about how my brother has a small face...
and nice proportions.
Then she said, "When you are next to your brother,"
"your face looks big."
(She keeps her eyes on Tae Gyun.)
"You look like you have bad proportions and ugly looks."
Why did you look at me and smile?
(I couldn't help but look at you.)
One time, I was about to eat fried chicken...
when my mom told me to give it to my brother.
She told you not to eat it.
(That's too much.)
- That's sad. - Seriously.
Does your mom only compare...
you and your brother?
Does she compare your dad and your brother...
or your grandma and brother?
Why would she compare her grandma and her brother?
She does compare my dad and my brother.
- Really? - Yes.
She is obsessed.
She loves my brother.
In this situation,
your brother could be a bit embarrassed.
- He mostly stays still. - He mostly stays still.
- Sometimes, he teases me. - What does he say?
"Will you be able to go to college with this grade?"
How annoying!
(Annoyed)
His facial expression conveys,
"You won't be able to do it."
Seriously.
What does your dad say?
That's right. Dads always side with their daughters.
My dad is powerless.
(It's an unexpected answer.)
- That's sad. - He is a toothless tiger.
(That's why it's harder to bear.)
Let's first talk to her mom.
Hello.
All right.
Hello.
Your daughter is here with a worry. Do you understand her worry?
No, I don't think it's a worry.
That's right. Most people in that seat say that.
I have never treated the two of them differently,
so I don't know what she is talking about.
As for the talk about their looks... Ever since they were little,
I would go outside with them...
and people would say, "You son is handsome."
No one said Soo Bin is pretty.
I guess she has a worry because that fact upsets her,
but I have never treated them differently.
You could have gone,
"Soo Bin is pretty as well."
It would have sounded fake...
since it didn't come from strangers.
Not only that, I don't often give out compliments.
It doesn't come out easily.
You give out compliments to your son.
Why do you give out compliments to your son?
When other people compliment him,
I add a word or two.
You talk about your son during a meal with your daughter.
"Isn't your brother handsome?" That's a compliment.
Well,
I would say it's a mealtime conversation.
A conversation?
Why did you suddenly bring up your son's appearance?
People tell me that he is handsome.
I simply repeat what I hear. I don't start that kind of talk.
You told Soo Bin her head is bigger than her brother's.
When they are side by side, her head does look bigger.
That's too much.
Your head is bigger than your son's, too.
(Tae Gyun strikes back.)
Your daughter takes after you.
- You didn't have to say that. - Seriously.
She became prettier.
She was uglier when she was younger.
The difference was more stark when they were younger.
Listen to yourself. You keep comparing them.
These thoughts come out when you don't even realize.
That's too much information.
How about their grades?
Do you always compare their grades?
I have never compared their grades.
- But... - Are you serious?
When you said that, Soo Bin went...
(She couldn't stop herself.)
She sighed.
I think it's because they are a year apart.
When my son studies hard...
and gets good grades,
I get the urge to compliment him.
But even when my daughter says her grades improved,
they aren't as good as her brother's.
I don't get the urge to compliment her.
- Everyone is different. - Don't compare them.
How can two people be the same?
She did the best she could.
When my son does something, I get touched.
When Soo Bin does something, I go, "That's what kids do at that age."
- You have already experienced it. - Yes.
- For an example, - They are a year apart.
it was moving when my son entered...
the kindergarten.
- You know, - It sounds like an excuse.
it sounds like an excuse.
Soo Bin said you told her,
"You should try beating your brother in something."
She told us that.
I haven't forgotten.
Although her grades aren't as good as her brother's,
she gets moved by her improvement.
- Is it wrong for her to get moved? - It's an achievement.
You get moved by everything...
- your son does. - They are different people.
But I only receive...
two report cards.
I can't help but compare the two...
- Right. - because of that.
- My goodness. - I get that,
but you also treat them differently in terms of food.
I never stopped Soo Bin from eating anything,
- but my son... - You deny everything!
Drumstick.
My son doesn't eat much.
He eats very slowly.
When we order fried chicken,
Soo Bin eats two drumsticks before her brother comes home.
That's why I asked her to wait for her brother.
But my brother only comes...
20 to 30 minutes later after he finishes playing games.
I thought he was coming back from an academy!
- He comes from playing games. - He could...
stop playing games and eat together.
Soo Bin's mom makes her wait instead.
It's not tasty when it's cold.
- That's right. - It should be eaten right away.
- Seriously. - My son said he will be done soon,
so I told Soo Bin to wait.
You could tell your son,
- "Stop playing games and come." - That's right.
If I do that, his game...
(His game gets disrupted.)
- For goodness' sake. - That's...
(Soo Bin is less important than her brother's game.)
Your thoughts revolve around your son.
Soo Bin would go crazy...
because she can smell the food.
She should leave one drumstick behind,
- but she eats both of them. - Does she eat both of them?
You wanted to leave one behind, right?
I did, but...
(The thing is...)
I can't control myself.
She's cute.
(She is cute.)
- It's like that. - You understand, right?
Drumsticks are like that.
She won.
- She won in that regard. - You can't stop eating them.
Is there anything that makes your son stand out?
You talked about how he resembles Park Bo Gum.
My heart swells with pride when I look at him.
"Even though he is my son..."
When the family dines out,
people say, "Your son is handsome. Whom does he take after?"
"He doesn't look like his parents."
(She criticizes herself.)
"Perhaps your child got switched."
They say Soo Bin takes after me.
She does take after you.
She hates hearing that.
- "You resemble your mom"? - Yes.
- Do you hate it? - She said it first.
That's why I said, "I hate that I resemble you."
She said that she hates hearing those words...
because you started it.
She called me ugly.
- She said it first. - You called her ugly first!
I bet Soo Bin's mom said it first.
- Who started it? - Be honest.
No daughters say, "Mom, why are you so ugly?"
Children aren't like that.
Even though I am like this, my mom goes,
"Why did you lose so much weight?"
Moms see their children in a better light.
- Their personalities... - Your son is your standard.
When she talks, she refers to her son as "My son"...
and Soo Bin as "Soo Bin", not "My daughter".
I know.
(My son)
(Happy)
(She is completely different when she talks about her daughter.)
(Soo Bin)
(I am your daughter, right?)
Let's say hello to her brother. Mr. Park Bo Gum.
Mr. Park Bo.
He is handsome.
(Handsome)
He has a nice side profile.
He has sharp features.
(Proud)
I am sure everyone has thought...
that he is handsome. Right?
- Yes. - Right, Joon Hyun?
- I think about it four times a day. - That's right.
You must have thought that you are handsome.
- Sometimes, I wonder if it's true. - He has a nice voice.
Most of the times, I don't think about it.
- I see. - He is truly handsome.
Your sister says it's hard since she gets treated differently.
Do you understand her worry?
I don't think she gets treated differently.
However, I can feel that...
my mom likes me a bit more.
When she calls me, she says,
"Chang Yeob."
When she calls my sister,
she says, "Soo Bin!"
She yells her name.
Yes. I said she won't be able to go to college...
because she didn't seem to know the reality.
Did you sneer and ask,
"Will you be able to go to college?"
- Did you do that? - I tease her...
when I am with Mom.
When we are by ourselves, I help her a lot.
Can you show us a sneer that hurt...
your sister's feelings? We want to see what it looks like.
"Will you be able to go to college?" Then sneer.
Will you be able to go to college?
(Sneering)
(It doesn't look annoying to other people.)
You go to the same school. How are things at school?
People talk about my sister.
- Really? - What do they say?
The teachers tell me that...
she studies really hard.
My friends tell me that she's pretty.
You should tell her that then.
I was worried that it would get to her head...
if I tell her these things.
(He was worried she might become full of herself.)
- That's what he worried. - She's got no self-esteem.
She's got absolutely no self-esteem.
- That's a ridiculous worry. - She needs self-esteem.
You have to improve her self-esteem.
(She can't become full of herself.)
His mom thinks he's very handsome.
They've brought some photos of him from his childhood.
He must've been really handsome.
- He's cute. - He's cute.
(He had big eyes.)
- I get why people would say it. - He's handsome.
- He's handsome. - He's a handsome boy.
- My goodness. - He was handsome.
- He was only in third grade. - He was a beautiful boy.
- He was. - He's handsome.
The wind gently blew his hair.
My goodness.
(He looks like an idol.)
- He's really handsome. - He was in seventh grade.
(He's my son.)
- Shall we look at her photos? - Shall we?
- My goodness. - She's cute.
- She was lovely. - She was cute.
- She was lovely. So cute. - She was really lovely.
- She was cute. - She had a lovely smile.
- She was lovely. - How is that ugly?
She hasn't changed a bit.
Your mom says...
that she has never treated you differently.
You heard what she had to say. Can you understand her now?
- Can I take this out first? - What is it?
- It went in here. - It's a ball.
I thought she was a magician. She suddenly took out a ball.
Since when has it been there?
Ma'am, the favoritism isn't the problem here.
She's got a bad habit.
- She stole a stage prop. - She...
Take off your shirt.
- I've known about it. - You've known about it?
She stole her brother's favorite...
Why would you actually take it seriously?
She stole her brother's favorite...
(They were joking, but she took it seriously.)
No. This is important.
- You shouldn't have taken it out. - Right.
But ma'am, we were...
joking because a ball from there accidentally got into her sleeve.
When we said she had a bad habit, you said, "I've known about it."
- She says it's true. - How can you do that to her?
- It's true. - Ma'am,
we always give one ball to the guest.
(The tradition starts today.)
It's yours.
(Thank you.)
Does your mom tell you a lot of negative things?
She does. Since I am in high school,
I think a lot about my career path.
- I wanted to be a policewoman. - A policewoman.
When I tell her that,
she tells me that I can never be one with my grades.
- And? - I also wanted to be...
- A flight attendant. - a flight attendant,
so I told Mom about it.
She said, "How can you become a flight attendant with those legs?"
- But she gave you those legs. - The legs.
She didn't sit down and talk to you seriously.
I felt the saddest when I was sick.
- When you were sick. - My brother gets sick often.
She's always worried about him. She always asks if he's taken medicine.
She keeps worrying about your brother.
I usually don't get sick.
But there was a time when I felt like collapsing.
I get dizzy quite often.
Mom said I would get better if I sleep and told me to sleep.
She never takes it seriously.
She doesn't sound concerned.
She doesn't get too sick.
- But she did. - She once did get very sick.
But compared to how sick my son gets,
she doesn't get too sick.
- You compared them again. - You compared them.
You compared them again. You should only consider her.
Did you ever think about talking sweetly to your daughter?
My son is rather blunt.
So I try to be sweet to him. But my daughter...
is playful with me.
When I make jokes,
she plays along.
I thought she would take them as a joke.
I become playful...
because she always cares about my brother,
and that's the only way we can relate to each other.
You did it to win her attention.
- My goodness. - That's why she did it.
- This is why you need to talk. - My goodness.
With any relationships, you need to click.
- Right. - But they don't seem to click.
Let's hear from her father.
But he's got no power. So what's the point?
On the outside, he looks like he's got the most power.
I try my best...
to be nice to Soo Bin.
But to keep the family's peace,
I tend to overlook everything.
Please be objective. Between your wife and your daughter,
who attacked first about being ugly?
(Can I say it?)
She often says...
- that she's ugly. - Who says to who?
My wife says to my daughter.
- She says it. - My wife says it.
I thought she was joking, but it made me feel bad.
But whenever Park Bo Gum or Jung Woo Sung is on TV,
she says my son looks just like them.
(They are the 3 most handsome people in the world to her.)
- She says that. - He looks just like them?
Did you ever get compared to your son...
and feel bad?
I feel bad many times.
Can you move here and tell us more about it?
- Please come here. - Let's give him a ball.
Can he tell us everything?
- Yes. - Right.
When I come home,
she just gives me ordinary side dishes.
After I have dinner, I go to my room. When I come back out,
I see her fixing a meal for my son.
When she prepares a meal for him, there's sizzling sound.
(The sound is already different.)
One time, she was grilling beef for him.
- She only gave you side dishes. - You heard the sizzle.
You must've thought, "She's cooking something new."
She cooked a dish.
It made me sad. I know that I am her husband, but...
- Did you... - And when she talks,
80 percent of what she says is about him.
Sometimes, you talk about what you want to be...
- if you are born again. - Yes.
She says she wants to date and live with her son...
when she is born again.
(She wants to date and live with her son in the next life.)
She wants him, not me.
That made me a little sad.
You are not the problem. Your dad is in more trouble.
Your dad is in more trouble.
- His problem is more serious. - No wonder he doesn't have power.
What was the thing that made you the saddest?
For eight years, my brother...
has been singing and playing guitar and piano.
He normally practices until 2am.
He also sings for an hour while taking a shower.
While taking a shower?
When you sing in the bathroom, there's nice echo effect.
- It's nice. - He must've seen it somewhere.
He does it every day, but nobody stops him.
(Nobody stops him from singing.)
"How can you sing so loudly at night?"
The downstairs neighbor came up to complain.
- He said it was too loud at night. - It was that bad?
- It was that bad? - What did your mother say?
She said we should let him be because that's how he de-stresses.
(Leave him be. That's how he de-stresses.)
That's what she said.
(They let him do whatever he wants.)
She says I should just wait since he would finish soon.
My daughter doesn't sing, but she dances a lot.
Listening to my brother's singing,
my mom says he's getting better. She gives positive comments.
- She... - That's how she changes.
I don't even dance that much, and she says...
I am such a terrible dancer.
Listening to her son's singing,
- she thought he got better. - Right.
- Why don't we hear it? - Right.
She might be right.
I am excited.
- I think he will be good. - Here we go.
- He's starting it right away. - What's that?
(He is good enough to freely control the guitar.)
He's really good.
- Look at that. - He's good.
(Go, son!)
He's good.
He's really good.
(He's handsome and clever. And he plays guitar well too.)
(We admit he's good.)
(She's very proud of him.)
- To judge objectively, - Yes.
we want to see you dance too.
Can you do it?
The idols are here.
You can dance all you want.
Go, Soo Bin!
She's good.
(Are you watching me?)
She's good.
(Even the idols applaud her.)
- She's good. - She's cute.
I would love it if my daughter dances like this.
- She's... - She doesn't even dance often.
No, she dances often.
When I tell her to stop dancing because it becomes chaotic,
she moves closer to me and dances.
(My goodness, ma'am.)
Look, ma'am.
Your daughter talked about many things that made her sad,
and you never sympathized with her. Not even once.
She wants your sincerity, true love, and attention.
As her parent, you should give it a serious thought.
Right. Don't just keep joking about it.
You need to listen to what she has to say.
Only when you listen to each other, you can communicate with each other.
What we are certain about...
is that she loves her son and daughter.
But the way you express your love is...
causing misunderstanding. That's what we mean.
Since she told you everything,
you should talk to her about it and tell her you are sorry.
Tell her you wouldn't tease her anymore if it hurt her.
Why don't you talk to her that way?
(She becomes anxious.)
Soo Bin,
you know how much I love you.
I thought you would know that I was only teasing you.
If that made you think that I was favoring your brother,
I will try to change my actions.
I am sorry about that.
She admitted to it.
Since you started talking,
please tell us why your daughter is great.
Tell everyone how amazing your daughter is.
My daughter Soo Bin...
has such an easy-going personality.
She is such a hard worker. She tries everything hard.
She doesn't easily get discouraged.
- She's positive. - Yes. She's very positive.
She's our one and only daughter.
- Of course. - I think I haven't...
- expressed it enough. - That's always the problem.
I will be on her side.
I want her to open her heart and talk to me...
whenever she is worried about something.
- And we will make things better. - Right.
Some might think...
it's only a light problem.
But it's not true.
- This might be a seed. - Right.
- Yes. - You should just...
accept each other...
and love each other.
That's what this family really needs.
Let's vote.
Considering her position,
I think it is a worry.
I think it's a worry.
From now, she should only compare prices of goods when you shop.
He's a genius.
I hope she will not compare her children. It's a worry.
- How did you think of that? - I know.
It took me a day to think of this.
I've been thinking about it since yesterday.
It's a big worry.
- It's a worry. - I think it's a worry.
I really love myself.
I think it began with...
the love I got from my parents.
That's self-esteem.
If you sympathize with Soo Bin,
please press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Let's check how many votes she got.
Please reveal the result.
(What's the result?)
It's over 100.
134.
(She got 134 votes.)
"Will She Change This Year?"
Hello, I am a man in his 20s who is from Busan.
I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for five years.
My girlfriend is suffering from a serious condition.
Ring, ring.
"Honey, it's already 30 minutes past our appointment time."
"Where are you?"
"I am leaving soon."
Ring.
"It's been an hour. Did you really leave?"
"Yes. I am leaving now."
Ring.
"It's been two hours. When on earth are you leaving?"
"It's getting more delayed because you are rushing me."
"I am really leaving now."
She's always late for everything.
- He speaks... - He's really terrible...
- with Gyeongsang Province accent. - at speaking with an accent.
- Look how red his ears are. - It's embarrassing.
- It's embarrassing. - His ears are red.
I get so embarrassed whenever he speaks with an accent.
- I thought it was his Seoul accent. - He had a bad start.
Hello, I am a man in his 20s who is from Seoul.
He's good. He's good.
(Please forget about everything.)
(He's frustrated.)
"It's getting more delayed because you are rushing me."
"I am really leaving now."
She's always late for everything. 30 minutes is a given.
When she's really late, she's 2 to 3 hours late.
She's now famous for being late among our friends.
(All of their friends know it.)
"Is your girlfriend coming late again?"
"Do you want to make a bet?"
"What are you talking about? She said she won't be late today."
"The person who loses the bet will treat everyone. Okay?"
"Okay?"
- His friends speak awkwardly too. - "Okay?"
You got a message.
"Honey, where are you? You can't be late today."
You got a message.
"I think I will be an hour late."
"Just make up excuses for me."
Have you ever waited for someone in the cold...
for three hours in the middle of winter?
She's unbelievable.
(He shivered in cold.)
"I caught flu while waiting,"
"so I went to an emergency room."
"If you don't want to wait, date another woman."
She's got some nerves.
(She yelled at him.)
She's always late,
and she's thick-faced.
Can you help her stop being late?
(He's asking them to fix his girlfriend.)
That's crazy.
Some people are habitually late.
- Right. - It's a habit.
But some people make you laugh even when they are late.
When you ask, "Where are you?"
She says, "Just count to 3. Just count to 3."
One time I counted to 3 3,000 times.
I counted to 3 3,000 times.
Some lie.
"I can see you. I can see you."
"I said I can see you."
And he comes after an hour.
- He says your hair looks nice. - And he comes an hour later.
- Right. - Is there a member like that?
He came late this morning.
- Hongseok? - Hongseok?
His nickname is Hongseok Again.
"Is it Hongseok again?"
We had to get in the car at 40.
Don't tell them the details.
- Tell us. - Tell us.
We had to get in the car at 40.
He started taking a shower at 40.
- What? - I was already outside.
Because there are a lot of members, you can't take long.
It was just the two of us today.
- It was just the two of you. - Yes.
Among the team members,
I am most frequently late.
I can't get ready fast.
You can get started early.
Right. But I can't do that, and that's why I am late.
- Right. - Yes.
Even the MCs are sometimes late.
Sometimes I am late.
Yeong Ja is...
I thought she was really charming.
"I didn't sleep in. There was no reason."
"I am just late."
- Right. She was very confident. - She was very confident.
She had no reason.
She didn't get stuck in traffic.
There was no traffic.
I had no excuses to give.
"I am so sorry. I was late for no reason."
I couldn't find a reason.
She's the Grand Award material.
And I guess Dong Yeob thought that was charming.
It was the first time you felt that, wasn't it?
Which side of my face is more charming?
This side or this side?
(Which side of my face is more charming?)
Can you turn your face?
More. More.
That's it.
(Gosh.)
He's worried because...
his girlfriend is never punctual.
Please come on out.
(Who's the man tired of waiting for his girlfriend who is always late?)
(Lee Joon Won)
Hello.
(He appears in a stylish way.)
Is she always late, like you said in the letter?
Yes. I met her through a blind date.
She was an hour late.
- To the first date? - to the first date?
She came so late that day.
- She's very consistent. - I thought I got stood up.
I thought I got stood up.
When we met for the second time,
I treated her to a beef.
I loved the way she was eating.
And we ended up dating for the past five years.
You fell for her when she was eating beef?
You could've gone out with him.
(I am confident about eating well.)
(He's flustered.)
- When we watch a movie... - You must buy a ticket.
We can never watch the first part.
- You only watch the twist part. - You can't watch the first part.
(Oh, dear.)
We missed a train several times too.
- She was late for the train too. - You would miss it.
You can't miss that.
In summer I am very sensitive to heat.
I once waited two hours for her.
I sweated so much...
that I nearly fainted.
You got dehydrated.
In the winter, I waited three hours for her.
I went to an emergency room because of flu.
Is she late only when she meets you?
Or is she also late when she meets other people?
We once went on a trip with another couple,
and she was three hours late.
We arrived really late.
Then did everyone else wait for her?
- Yes. - There?
That's rude.
At that time, my friend told me...
that my girlfriend seems to have no common sense.
We ended up arguing,
and we stopped being friends.
- You lost your friend? - You lost your friend?
No way.
You stopped being friends.
How lovely must she have looked eating beef?
Tell us more. What else?
It was when she was meeting my parents for the first time.
- I'm sure she was punctual. - She must've come on time.
- She should've been. - They are parents.
She wasn't too late then. She was about half an hour late.
That's very late too.
- When you meet parents, - She was meeting your parents.
she should've arrived 30 minutes earlier and waited for them.
(Being late is her life.)
You've been seeing each other for five years.
Didn't she sometimes come on time?
- She should've. At least once. - She came on time once.
- Once in five years? - Just once.
- How did she do that? - Just once?
- It was... - I am curious.
a rush hour, so traffic was bad.
So I was a little late.
So she arrived first. That happened one time.
- Was she still late? - Yes.
- You were late too. - You were late.
She didn't come on time.
Why don't you meet in front of her place?
- That's a good idea. - What do you think?
- It's the same. - She still comes out late?
Even if you wait in front of her house?
When I call her, she says, "I am leaving soon."
It would be better to run into each other than to set the time.
I think it would be better.
You can accidentally run into each other.
- He's a genius. - You can go near his house...
He's a genius.
You can run into her at a market nearby her place.
- Right. - "Hey! Let's go to a movie."
- Don't make an appointment. - Don't make an appointment.
Just run into each other.
- That's how they should meet. - Let's first meet his girlfriend.
Hello.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Who is his girlfriend who is always late?)
Were you not late today?
I was late again.
You were late?
(She smiles.)
While trying to hurry, I left my jacket at home.
Do you understand your boyfriend's concern?
No, I don't think it's a worry.
Why?
But you are always so late.
He can just wait for me. I don't think it's a big worry.
2 to 3 hours is quite long.
You've been late for five years. And you think it's not serious?
No. If he likes me,
he should be willing to wait.
Let's put yourself in his shoes.
If he has been late for five years, can you still wait for him?
No. I will be upset.
- Because he made me wait for him. - What is that?
(I can't wait for you.)
She's a typically selfish person.
You are talking nonsense.
I don't like waiting for someone.
(She's very sure about herself.)
(How can she say such a thing?)
Do you think your boyfriend likes to wait?
(Do you think I like waiting?)
Let me ask you frankly. Why are you so late?
- What do you do? - What do you do?
I want to look prettier,
so I try on a lot of clothes,
and I end up being really late.
You could prepare it the day before. "I should wear this tomorrow."
You could pick the outfit ahead of time.
Even if I do that,
I change my clothes because I don't like them.
If I prepare in a hurry,
I forget something and have to return home.
Even if that's the case,
why do you get angry...
- when you're the one who's late? - Exactly.
That's because I showed up late since I wanted to look good,
but he didn't understand how I felt.
I think showing up on time...
with no makeup and just wearing a hat will be better.
- Exactly. We feel that way. - That's right.
(I can't get through to her.)
But from what I heard, she's always late...
because she wants to look nice in front of you.
I understand that.
But when she wakes up, she's on her phone.
- Then she watches some TV. - She's just being lazy, right?
Since it's winter, she lies down on an electric pad.
- And that makes it harder... - She doesn't want to come out.
When I get all ready and call her,
she tells me that she's getting ready.
When I go to her place,
I see that her lunch is still there when it's evening.
- What? - She hasn't cleaned it up.
She wants me to clean it up.
- You're just lazy. - Right.
I bet it took her over five hours to get ready, judging by her looks.
But during the winter and the summer,
aren't you worried about him waiting...
in the cold and the heat?
- I do, but if he likes me, - But...
- I think he can wait for me. - "If he likes me".
"If he loves me, he can collapse from waiting."
One time, I called her and noticed...
that her surroundings were so quiet.
I asked her if she left home, and she said she did.
I asked if she had gotten on a bus, and she said she did.
So then I ask her not to hang up until I hear the announcement.
- But it was quiet the whole time. - Really?
I asked her to be honest.
She said she was at home.
You know, she could've made the announcement herself.
"The next stop is Dongdaemun Market."
She'd have to slightly distance herself from the phone.
"Please watch out for the steps."
He claims that it's more of the fact that you're lazy...
than that you're getting ready. Do you admit to this?
Yes. I do.
I see.
She's indeed quite slow.
- Thank you for admitting. - Goodness.
How about when you meet your friends?
I'm often late then as well.
Do they understand?
They come 30 minutes late on purpose.
But my boyfriend comes too early.
He doesn't know how to be flexible. So I get frustrated.
No way.
(They're taken aback by her justification.)
- Why are you so brazen? - She's odd.
Are you expecting him to come late?
Were you always late to school then?
Yes.
We had to pay a fine every time we were late.
I paid more than 100 dollars.
My high school teachers gave up on me.
(She's unbelievable.)
(That's not something to brag about.)
It's understandable if you take responsibility for your tardiness.
But your boyfriend was on bad terms with his friend...
during the trip.
I did feel sorry about.
But I believe a true friend...
would understand such a matter and not get mad.
(She doesn't believe that his friend was genuine.)
She loves the word "true".
- "She loves the word "true". - I guess she loves being true.
- He's not a true friend? - Then what about when you...
were late to meet his parents?
- That time... - Are they not true parents then?
(Just because they couldn't understand?)
They weren't true parents.
I guess that's why some people don't grow up.
- They just age. - I wasn't that late back then.
- Wow, she's really unique. - But still.
I'm trying to change myself.
You really need to because when they say,
- It's quite serious. - "The bride will now enter,"
but you don't show up...
(Where did the bride go?)
Then the next wedding's bride will enter.
Goodness.
- Then... - But true guests should wait.
- They should. - Right.
- Those who aren't are fake? - Correct.
I want to ask her boyfriend something.
Are you able to have a date with her when you're upset?
I'm at least grateful if she shows up.
- You're amazing. - But she didn't show up once.
- What? - She didn't show up?
- She canceled on me. - You were grounded.
(What should they do?)
One time, I waited two hours...
because she wanted to have dinner.
She suddenly texted, saying she was tired and wasn't coming.
Few days ago, I waited for an hour and a half,
but she said the same thing and didn't show up.
That's when I signed up for this program.
- You were that upset. - That's when you signed up?
- I have a question. - "This just won't do."
"I've been nothing but nice. I don't deserve this."
Do you perhaps think of him...
as a pushover?
(She pauses once...)
(and twice.)
(Hesitating)
- Let's wait. - Let's wait.
If we are true emcees, we must wait.
(True emcees should wait.)
- Just wait. - He waited for years.
I guess in a way, I do.
Hongseok, what's your take on this?
You always show up late, right?
- How do you feel? - I think he empathizes with her.
- "She can be late." - I understand her being late.
But I cannot understand the fact that she doesn't think in his shoes.
- She has no conscience. - No.
Because if that's the case,
I can always be late and expect them to be true members.
- Right. - It might become the famous word.
- But I don't think that's right. - Right.
If we switch positions,
I should also be a true member and not show up late.
- That's right. - Yes.
- He's right. - If you love him, be on time.
Her younger sister is here with us.
She lacks the concept of a promise.
I'm serious. She once booked an appointment for her dog.
- If we show up late, - Right.
the others will have to wait 20 to 30 minutes.
The workers called to ask when we were coming.
I was in panic mode, but my sister...
was calm and said they could wait.
So when we finally got there, I apologized numerous times.
But she stood next to me and apologized while smiling.
When I saw that, I was so frustrated.
How does the rest of your family think of her?
My parents know that she's always been late since she was young.
So if we have plans to meet outside,
she needs to take a photo or a video of herself being outside.
That's when we all depart.
- Has she ever waited? - Goodness.
- Not once. - My goodness.
What in the world does she do at home?
I heard it's because she tries to get dolled up.
- But I'm sure there's more to it. - She disagrees.
She's dated him for five years now,
but she never got dolled up.
(She criticizes her.)
Way to go!
- She went without any makeup. - Exactly.
How long has it been since she stopped getting dolled up?
- I mean... - She won't reply.
She lies down,
- She just lies down. - watches TV, is on her phone,
and just does nothing.
She's extremely laid back.
(She's a carefree woman.)
Her friend of 10 years is here.
- She'll know the truth. - Right.
- 10 years is quite a lot. - I know.
Do you also wait for her?
I've also waited for an hour.
I've waited for a long time.
One time, she was early.
She was on time for the 1st time in 5 years.
Everyone said it must've been the end of the world.
How were you not late that time?
(She doesn't look at them.)
- Excuse me. - Yes?
- She's so laid back. - I know.
I've never met someone whom I had to be this patient with.
- I had to wait for her reply. - Goodness.
In high school, we fought an awful amount because of this.
The place we had planned to meet was 10 minutes from her place...
and an hour from mine.
I was concerned about being late and took a cab.
- But she came later than I did. - When it's a 10-minute distance?
Not only was she late, but she said something to me.
I'm getting mad again.
- She's furious again. - I know.
- Explaining it makes her mad. - Goodness.
We're not broadcasting real time, so feel free to say whatever.
- What are you saying? - We can edit it.
(Will they get into a fight?)
She said,
(What did she say?)
"Why do you take a cab? It's a waste of money."
- "You should've taken a bus." - That's upsetting.
(Will their friendship be all right?)
She's just being selfish.
It's nothing else. She's just selfish.
She has this thought...
that if you're a man, you should do something.
I enjoy watching Marvel and action movies.
- They're fun. - I enjoy them.
But we always have to watch whatever that girl likes.
- That girl? - That girl?
(He's also getting furious.)
- He's furious. - No.
Gyeongsang Province people say that.
- It's their dialect. - We say "that girl" a lot.
- It's nothing bad. - Right.
- That girl is... - That girl...
One time, we went to a chicken soup restaurant,
and they gave us some red ginseng resin.
I didn't know I was allergic to it and took a sip.
While we were shopping afterwards, I suddenly couldn't breathe.
I wanted to go to the pharmacy, but she had to buy dog items.
"Let's shop for more and go."
- That's not right. - You were suffering.
- I could've died. - Goodness.
(She's too much.)
Still, there is something that I do for him.
- Really? - What is it?
(There is something...)
(she does for him?)
I...
- We were all waiting to hear that. - Exactly.
The audience...
were originally tired of listening.
But when she said that, they all jumped up.
It was as if they just won the lottery.
When we go to restaurants famous for their menus,
I wait in line no matter how long it is.
But he doesn't like to do that. He tells me that we should go...
somewhere else, and I listen.
- Is this what you meant? - Yes. I do that for him.
- Goodness. - I see.
Do what you were originally planning to do.
I am completely banned from meeting...
my girl friends.
- Your girl friends? - I see.
But I caught her three times hanging out with unknown guys.
- Unknown guys? - Yes.
(She did what?)
(What was she thinking?)
But despite all that, she still has something to say to me.
That's why I'm flabbergasted.
(They're at a loss for words.)
But...
it's normal for young women...
to hang out with strangers. We've met for five years.
(She doesn't feel guilty at all.)
- What? - But you're dating him.
(You hang out with strangers when you have a boyfriend?)
I didn't do that. It was my friends who did it.
However, you don't allow him to meet his female friends,
but you can meet your male friends?
(It's hard to understand.)
It's because my boyfriend...
is handsome.
So I trust him,
but other women want to date him.
He looks happy.
He's smiling.
I haven't seen his teeth until now.
I wondered why he dated her for five years,
and this was the reason.
- "He's handsome." - While eating beef, she says,
- "You're so handsome." - She makes him happy.
(His handsome face makes their bond stronger.)
From what I heard so far, to be honest,
I don't understand...
- why you're still dating her. - Right.
I thought of breaking up with her many times.
However, when I was younger, I had serious problems...
with my parents.
They were very controlling and used violence.
I've been living separately from my family for a long time.
(He had to leave his family.)
My girlfriend is the person who made me feel the warmth of a family.
She brought me holiday food on national holidays.
She came to see me and ate with me...
while chatting with me on holidays.
That's why I couldn't leave her.
- She has a warm heart. - Yes.
I worry about her because I want to marry her.
First of all, seeing that she's late for her appointments,
- she might be in trouble at work. - Right. It's important.
One time, she had a job interview at 5pm.
But she left home at 5pm.
- My goodness. - Gosh.
So I gave her a nickname, Sloth.
I think she moves even slower than a sloth.
If you keep going on like this...
How are you going to make money?
You need to find a job.
However, I believe that the society we're living in...
urges us to move too fast.
And if there is...
a kind of work that I can do...
calmly and slowly,
I think I can find a job like that.
(There will be no job that meet all your needs.)
- Do you have your phone right now? - Yes.
- Do you have your photos with him? - Yes.
Could you show us the photos?
(Moving slowly)
You can just come down here and show us.
(Dawdling)
Please just come down here.
(He ended up urging her.)
- No. - Just throw it to us.
"Throw it to us"?
The reason why she's late...
You can come this way.
Why would you take the longer path?
(The shortcut was right in front of her.)
- She's walking up the stage. - Why would you?
You could've just walked straight.
She likes taking a detour. Please come here.
(She walks slowly.)
Look at this photo.
In fact, she seemed very relaxed and seemed to move slowly.
So I wanted to see her attitude while walking...
from her seat to the stage.
That's why I asked you to come here.
(It was a test.)
You can go back to your seat with your phone.
This is interesting.
(She's still relaxed.)
(She frustrates me.)
You give her a lot of advice, right?
When I give her advice, she says harsh things sometimes.
(She says hurtful things!)
Since I've been living separately from my parents for a long time,
she says, "I can tell that you grew up without parents."
You should never say such a thing.
She meant to hurt your feelings.
It broke my heart.
(It broke my heart.)
(The rift between them deepens.)
You decided to come on the show...
because you wanted to change yourself, right?
- Yes. I want to change. - Right.
You talked about how you do your hair and makeup.
When you're running late,
there's no point of looking pretty.
People won't even notice it.
- Of course. - All they see...
is a person who showed up late.
"What time is it now? She's already 30 minutes late."
"Who is this... It's understandable she's late."
"I don't mind if she's late because she's pretty."
- That never happens. - It never happens.
I think you have your priorities wrong.
What would you do if she can't fix this?
I guess we won't able to take our relationship to the next level.
(We won't be able to take our relationship further.)
- You can't take it further? - That's right.
There are so many girls who eat beef with gusto.
I think she uses that as her weapon.
Call Kim Min Kyoung and Lee Gook Ju.
How do you eat beef with gusto?
(I'll be good to you.)
Tell her what you have to say.
We can sort out the other things slowly,
but I want you...
to try to become punctual.
Say something like, "It's over if you're late again."
Say it with determination.
I won't see you again.
(Clenching his teeth)
(Oh, he's tough.)
All right. Let's start with Hongseok.
I tried to understand her...
as I also tend to be late, but...
- You think it's a worry? - Yes.
I used to be late often,
so I set my clock forward 20 minutes...
to prevent being late.
She can set her clock at home forward two hours...
- to prevent being late. - Like daylight savings time?
Yes. Just like that.
If I compare you as a building, I think you need to build a new one.
So I think it's a worry.
I think it's a serious worry. It's a worry.
- It's sad. - I don't think it's a worry.
If she doesn't fix her problems,
he'll have no choice but to break up with her.
If you can empathize with him,
please press the buzzer.
(What does the audience think?)
(Please tell us worries of yourself, your family, or your friends.)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
Time's up.
Say a word to your boyfriend.
Sweetie.
Thank you for understanding me for being late until now.
I will try not to be selfish...
and try to become punctual.
I love you.
Please show us the result.
The current winner got 170 votes.
Is it over 100?
- I think it is. - Could it be 172?
- Could she beat the nosy husband? - I don't think so.
(132 votes)
"The Truth of My Husband" is this week's winner.
The winner will receive prize money.
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
(Hello will continue to counsel you.)
("La La Love" by WJSN)